SA messes with your psyche, no matter what form it takes. While I’m not telling you how to feel about your own experiences, you also do not need to downplay that, period. It’s valid.
While attackers in taller/stronger/etc. bodies may have more of a physical danger element, SA and other forms of harassment and abuse is primarily psychological and power based. It’s also common to not realize until after the fact, for anybody.
You were outnumbered on the subway, and a doctor is in a position of authority. Both took advantage of that.
Brendan Fraser is a prominent example of a man who faced SA and harassment, and he’s brave af to have shared that. It absolutely happens and needs to be spoken out about, but yes unfortunately we live in a culture where talking about these abuses is downplayed and dismissed.
You being open with your stance definitely helps pave the way for others to feel safe, as well. MeToo is for everyone.
SA messes with your psyche, no matter what form it takes. While I’m not telling you how to feel about your own experiences, you also do not need to downplay that, period. It’s valid.
While attackers in taller/stronger/etc. bodies may have more of a physical danger element, SA and other forms of harassment and abuse is primarily psychological and power based. It’s also common to not realize until after the fact, for anybody.
You were outnumbered on the subway, and a doctor is in a position of authority. Both took advantage of that.
Brendan Fraser is a prominent example of a man who faced SA and harassment, and he’s brave af to have shared that. It absolutely happens and needs to be spoken out about, but yes unfortunately we live in a culture where talking about these abuses is downplayed and dismissed.
You being open with your stance definitely helps pave the way for others to feel safe, as well. MeToo is for everyone.