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minus-squarezarkanian@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·2 months agoThis reads like you didn’t even read the post, and you’re projecting your negative experience with your ex onto it for some reason. Yeah, abuse isn’t cool, but that’s not what this is.
minus-squarePhoenixz@lemmy.calinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·2 months agoI did read the post and yes, I have neen in abusive situations before. There is a reason why its an AITA question and yes, she is the asshole. Just because apparently loads of people have a slave fetish here doesn’t mean that it’s not manipulative.
minus-squarezarkanian@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·2 months agoThe point is that just because it’s manipulative, that doesn’t make it abuse.
This reads like you didn’t even read the post, and you’re projecting your negative experience with your ex onto it for some reason. Yeah, abuse isn’t cool, but that’s not what this is.
I did read the post and yes, I have neen in abusive situations before. There is a reason why its an AITA question and yes, she is the asshole.
Just because apparently loads of people have a slave fetish here doesn’t mean that it’s not manipulative.
The point is that just because it’s manipulative, that doesn’t make it abuse.