• DaPorkchop_@lemmy.ml
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      4 days ago

      The only birth control that is 100% effective is having HOT GAY SEX™

      Alternatively become a Buddhist monk and hit yourself in the balls until you’re infertile, I guess

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      Abstinence is not birth control.

      That’s like saying the only way to build a house that doesn’t fall down is to not build the house.

      • CompactFlax@discuss.tchncs.de
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        Abstinence is extremely effective. However, it’s impractical and associated with moralists and the piss-poor “sex education” that Americans get.

        But it is 100% effective.

        And yes, the best way to build a house that will never, ever fall down is to not build one. It is impractical, and beside the point, but it is true!

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          The abject lack of sex isn’t a way to make sex safer. It’s dodging the danger of sex, not addressing it. Abstinence has 0% effectiveness as safe sex, as the lack of sex is not at all related to safe sex.

          Playing linguistics games is exactly how abstinence gets pushed in the first place. Agreeing that these games are accurate, when they are whooley not, just reinforces those regressive polices.

      • hemko@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        It really is, avoiding risk vs mitigating risk. Birth control is summarized as avoiding unwanted pregnancies, not about baby safe sex.

        And I’m not saying “don’t have sex if you don’t want babies” because that’s stupid ass argument considering we have so many other options for birth control for you to choose from