• Rakonat@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    Odds are if a church was involved, one or both are gaslighted into believing they are meant to be married that other person for better or worse, and regressive enough subculture/community that finds divorce abhorrent for any reason (other than the man could have a younger bride)

    • RowRowRowYourBot@sh.itjust.works
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      OR they come from a culture that does arranged marriages and you are being anti-theist and unintentionally culturally insensitive.

      You are aware that arranged marriage is a thing still, right?

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        3 days ago

        Most countries where arranged marriages are still a thing so have that backwards religious view on divorce though.

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          2 days ago

          When you actually sit down and talk to people in these marriages they tend to be content.

          Your suggestion that another culture or religion is “backwards” is a very awkward claim to make as those rarely come from a good place.