my gf is dating me but she’s obsessed with dating guys. she writes love letters to them and stuff like that and acts super guilty when i end up finding out.

she even talks about dating these guys. should i break up?

  • Boomkop3@reddthat.com
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    13 days ago

    You should talk about each other’s wants and needs. Whatever the case may be, talk. You could ask things like:

    • What are you (each) hoping to get out the your relationship?
    • What do you (each) need from each other?
    • What do you (each) expect from each other?
    • Where do (each) of your boundaries lie? Are they different? Do they need compromise, or something else?

    I can’t read your minds and I may be miles off. But I hope this helps someone.