I feel like casual sex will probably help you find a long term relationship. All my relationships started with a hookup. My marriage did too.
I feel the same way but about hanging out and not having sex.
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Yeah, he’ll be yearning for a second chance at that someday, no doubt.
Honestly, I always felt the same way when I was younger. People would just meet up and fuck, like a fun thing, and I was never that into it. I thought something was wrong with me that I didn’t get it, until I started spending time with girls I had a real-life connection with, and then it was magic.
Pop culture lied to me. The club is bullshit. Casual sex is an awkward wasteland. Props if you’re into it I guess, but somehow young adult America turned it into the default, when it’s not the way.
Thing is, there is not a “way”. Some people enjoy casual sex, some yearns for a deeper connection, some don’t like sex at all. It varies depending on people, sexual preferences, mood, age, etc.
I don’t like the “they lied to me” mentality. Brother, they didn’t lie, it’s just not for you right now, and maybe never. You just need to find your way.
It is quite far from the default. That’s just a perception issue. Most young adults aren’t even having sex much less casual sex. Like sure tinder exists but it is primarily a fwb generator, not a meet someone new to fuck every day (at least for most people).
I’ve known people who’ve wondered if they were asexual because of this, then later realized that pop culture isn’t real life.
young adult America turned it into the default, when it’s not the way.
It’s the same way in europe, I hate it.
Maybe Helen Fisher’s work could be of interest to you
Capitalism turned it into default by turning dating into a catalogue you could surf from your couch instead of building meaningful connections with people.
In the name of profit
Dude has that Abrahamic guilt conditioning.
Not necessarily. Sex, even casual sex, can complicate or completely destroy a relationship. If I had drunken casual sex with a coworker I’d have regrets.
Since you’re making this comment, I’m guessing you are not at all religious?
Unless discordianism counts, not in the slightest. For me it would be about the potential drama.
There is an adjustment period, which is often uncomfortable.
And with a coworker, could completely fuck your life up if it goes sideways. No thanks.
Real man only have competitive sex /s
I only have ranked competitive sex.
freakin casuals
I aim to always win
Maybe you could go for the silver and come second this time
For an attentive lover, coming second means winning first.
Only with TAS
For heterosexuals, ranked PnV
For bisexuals, ranked PvP.
What league are you on OnlyFans?
Stuck in Iron 2 😢
At least it’s an honest grind.
Show us the answers please!
There’s nothing wrong with not wanting casual sex. There’s nothing wrong with wanting it.
The problem comes from saying that what you want is the only right thing, and that everyone that doesn’t want the same thing you do is wrong. Or from being deceptive about what you want in order to coerce the other person into sex.
Has consensual sex feel guilty
Are you Catholic?
maybe he just doesn’t like sex
The fuck is causal sex.
It’s when preceding events cause sex to happen.
Its existence also implies the existence of sex which occurs spontaneously and without warning, independently of all preceding events.
It’s horrible when taking the bus for example. Just sitting minding your business and the BAM spontaneous sex with the busdriver and everyone gets late for work
It absolutely is.
It’s like picrel apparently.
Folks, some people don’t like casual sex. Some people do. Depends a lot on why a person likes sex, if they like sex, I suppose.
This dude is either Catholic, or gay and he doesn’t realize it.
Fits with the fake/gay bit.
How about just having sex and then a nice conversation in bed? Maybe dude isn’t able to do the second part and it gets awkward.
Tell you what. I’ll be the pinch hitter for future casual sex. Just dip out and I’ll take the hit for you.
