my gf is dating me but she’s obsessed with dating guys. she writes love letters to them and stuff like that and acts super guilty when i end up finding out.

she even talks about dating these guys. should i break up?

  • insomniacalmond@lemmy.blahaj.zoneBanned
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    6 months ago

    I think you should talk to her. Communication is key. If she doesn’t want to change, break up with her or at least take a break

    It’s awfully suspicious that she’s acting so guilty about it. If she knew it was ok, why would she behave that way? Is she just embarrassed or GUILTY?

    This could be a sign that she’s about to cheat, but I suggest you talk to her.

    • galactic (she/they/he)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneBannedOP
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      6 months ago

      when she thinks I don’t know, she messages other guys.

      she posts the messages in the gc that she doesn’t think I’m in anymore.

      she’s barely 15 and talks about doing it w guys and dirty stuff too :(

      • galactic (she/they/he)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneBannedOP
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        6 months ago

        she also barely talks to me. she used to talk 2 me a lot, she seemed in love w me. she would have all these love letters and romantic bios and status, but now it’s w the guy, it seems.

        and she barely talks to me bc she’s in the gc. then, when I ask her smth to do w the guy, she acts really guilty and says something like “oh… hi…”

        “Don’t worry about it 😅”

        “I can’t say”

        Etc.

        • insomniacalmond@lemmy.blahaj.zoneBanned
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          6 months ago

          Isn’t this the girl that was talking behind ur back and “talking to” other guys without telling you? I know you might be attached to her, but she seems to have possibly cheated on you.